I always told my players to be like a pineapple. Be sweet, and people will just eat you up, but grow a hard exterior and you can have the best of both worlds. You should also be like a pineapple in that you grow where you’re planted, even if someone cuts your head off and you have to grow a new body. That’s a quote I got from my good friend Woody Hayes, who survived three decapitations and came back stronger each time. There’s a lesson in that for all of us.